Pain is part of life but how do each one of us deal with it differs from person to person. It can be physical or emotional or sometimes both. The strength of each person to bear it differs and mostly depends on understanding as well. In addition to the awareness, the support from outside, from friends, relatives also influence the intensity of pain and sufferings.
Gain, on the other hand, gives pleasure, comfort, and conveniences. This also can be material or emotional. The aim is always gain, but not selfish but mutually or universally rewarding. Pain comes from the loss of a person, material desires or expectations. But truth is that all pains are temporary and time heals it. Gains bring in material as well as mental comforts and happiness, even though not forever. Attitude of “no pain but only gain” can keep away pain
The attitude of “no pain but only gain” can keep away pain inflicting factors, mainly mental. Someone sending flowers may advise, take it easy or “I am with you”. It is actually a decision to stop the emotional pain. It may need the support of spouse, relatives or others around. Try to take the help of flowers in conveying support to someone in need. Relieve yourself and the other one from the pain and thus gain happiness by just saying “sorry” with flowers. Staying away from the partner may be a pain giving affair, but opening the heart increases the closeness.
The softness of flowers strengthens relationships and makes it meaningful by revealing the real purpose. Take small pain of making an online order and gain the benefit of affection and enjoy intimacy. When you have someone in Dubai suffering from sickness and pain, just send flowers to her and see how it helps. Similarly, it helps to end the psychological, painful drama sometimes by just starting a conversation. Just go ahead and gain a lot of benefit by getting a flower delivery right on specific time. There is no need to wait for a special day to send flowers as gift, and thus there need not be a specific reason. Just keep gaining…